The Debate: Should Men Pay on the First Date?

First dates can be a source of anxiety for many people, but there is one aspect that is often a source of debate: who should pay? While there is no one-size-fits-all answer, divorce lawyer Justin Lee has an opinion on the matter. According to Lee, men should always pay on first dates as a way to check if the other person is "entitled."

The Argument for Men Paying

Lee, a Toronto-based family lawyer, recently shared his opinion on the matter on TikTok. He believes that men should pay on first dates as a way to check if their date is "entitled." He says that it is the "best litmus test" for a partner. 

The Argument Against Men Paying

Not everyone agrees with Lee's opinion. Some argue that men should not be expected to pay on first dates. They believe that it sets an unequal power dynamic between the two people and that it is unfair to expect men to pay.

The Bottom Line

At the end of the day, it is up to the two people on the date to decide who should pay. Some may choose to split the bill, while others may decide that one person should pay. Ultimately, it is important to be respectful of the other person's wishes and to communicate openly about expectations.